Becoming Married To Your Causes
Becoming Married to Your Causes—in psychological and astrological terms, this points to repeating a story so fully that your “reasons” (wounds, patterns, beliefs, unresolved needs) begin to run the relationship—rather than conscious choice.
Where it may show up:
1) Romance/partnership: you may select people who mirror the original cause, repeating familiar dynamics even when they no longer serve you.
2) Emotions/communication: triggers can drive predictable reactions—needing to be right, saved, pursued, or reassured.
3) Boundaries: you may overgive, under-ask, or stay too long, because the “cause” feels morally binding.
4) Life direction: career and choices can follow the same inner logic (prove, repair, endure), limiting experimentation and renewal.
