• The Demanding Lover

Venus Sesquiquadrate Mars

Venus Aspects

Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure

Venus Sesquiquadrate Mars


This is a disruptive aspect that works primarily in the love life area, but it can also have repercussions on finances and other areas as well. Although it is one of the classic indicators of divorce-proneness and romantic and marital difficulties, you need not consider that your fate.
Romance is the prime driver of your life, and it is therefore inevitable that it leads to many tumultuous ups and downs in your emotional life. Intensity in your relationships combined with stress in your work life can lead you to anger and outbreaks of big temper tantrums, but when under less pressure you tend to be more mature and balanced.
You are highly creative, and whether you have yet found an outlet for that creativity or not, you feel the urge to express yourself ready to burst out from under the surface. With patient, consistent work you could create something great. Just be willing to put in the time to master the skills necessary for your chosen forms of expression.
You are demonstrative and unfailingly warm with your lovers, and rarely leave them in doubt about your feelings. You are faithful when committed, but you demand a lot in return. In extreme cases, when needs are not met, dissipation of various types can result, with infidelity, gambling and excessive drinking being the most common form of misdirection of romantic and sexual energies. ^^ ^^It is okay to be disappointed in love, but you must not let that drive you to self-destructive behaviors.