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Lilith in 11th House


The 12 Houses of astrology are symbolic of the all the departments that make up human life. The planets and zodiac signs will manifest themselves most strongly in the sphere of life represented by the House in which they fall on your chart. Houses are not "energies" like the elements or planets, nor do they color the expression of energies like the zodiac signs do. The houses are WHERE these energies are most likely to manifest. The houses are the fields of experience, not the experience themselves.

Lilith in 11th House

This placement affects your interactions within your social networks. If you were born with Black Moon Lilith in your 11th House, you may be seen as a Lilith figure within your circles, a destabilizing voice with dangerous ideas.

Perhaps you struggle to find your place in social situations, feeling like an outsider in group settings, distrusting group dynamics, or fearing rejection from groups for expressing your views. As a result, your self-protective tendencies may lead you to be extremely selective in your associations.

You may be driven by progressive convictions, but despite your humanitarian notions, you may treat individual people as disposable, discarding even close friends when they fall short of your ideals.

Your unrealistic expectations may also alienate your connections, and you may feel betrayed or rejected by the boundaries they set.

To fully realize this placement, you must learn the art of being an ally to others, as well as yourself. The more you learn to embrace who you are as an individual, the less afraid you’ll be of condemnation from the collective, and the more you’ll believe that you deserve to be part of the whole.

Black Moon Lilith represents a dark embodiment of divine feminine power. Fierce, raw, and primal, it’s the side of ourselves that refuses to be tamed, fights for its rights, and owns its desires.


Some may deny or repress these urges, associating them with shame, stigma, and disgrace. Others may overindulge or misuse these appetites through selfishness, destructiveness, or abuse. Meanwhile, others still may veer between these extremes, bottling up and exploding in a cycle of violence and guilt. As with all shadow selves, we must integrate the energies of Black Moon Lilith, and learn to express these parts of our personalities freely, mindfully, and purposefully.

Useful Lilith in 11th House Crystals