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Lilith in 4th House

"I am capable of healing my wounds and creating a sanctuary within myself."


The 12 Houses of astrology are symbolic of the all the departments that make up human life. The planets and zodiac signs will manifest themselves most strongly in the sphere of life represented by the House in which they fall on your chart. Houses are not "energies" like the elements or planets, nor do they color the expression of energies like the zodiac signs do. The houses are WHERE these energies are most likely to manifest. The houses are the fields of experience, not the experience themselves.

Lilith in 4th House

If you have Lilith in the 4th House, your home and family dynamics are deeply impacted. You may embody the Lilith archetype within your family, or your upbringing may have revolved around another family member who embodied this energy.

Perhaps you grew up in a strict or repressive household, where certain behaviors were heavily punished, or where you felt the need to hide your true self in order to receive care. Alternatively, power struggles, particularly between the sexes, may have characterized the atmosphere.

You might feel like a doormat within your family or cope by running away. To fully embrace this placement, you must heal your wounds by creating a sanctuary within yourself. Protect your emotions and build a home where your heart truly resides.

Black Moon Lilith represents the raw, fierce, and primal embodiment of divine feminine power. It is the part of us that refuses to be tamed, fights for its rights, and embraces its desires.

Some may repress or deny these urges, associating them with shame, stigma, and disgrace. Others may indulge or misuse these appetites through selfishness, destructiveness, or abuse. Still, others may oscillate between these extremes, suppressing and then exploding in a cycle of violence and guilt. Like all shadow aspects, integrating the energies of Black Moon Lilith requires expressing these parts of ourselves freely, mindfully, and purposefully.

Reflect on this: How can you create a nurturing and safe space within yourself to heal and embrace the power of your authentic desires?