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Lilith in 7th House


The 12 Houses of astrology are symbolic of the all the departments that make up human life. The planets and zodiac signs will manifest themselves most strongly in the sphere of life represented by the House in which they fall on your chart. Houses are not "energies" like the elements or planets, nor do they color the expression of energies like the zodiac signs do. The houses are WHERE these energies are most likely to manifest. The houses are the fields of experience, not the experience themselves.

Lilith in 7th House

This placement effects how you show up in relationships. If you were born with Black Moon Lilith in your 7th House, you may draw partners to you by appearing as a Lilith figure. However, you may act out this energy unconsciously in your partnerships, manipulating others to achieve your deepest or hidden desires.

If you deny your inner darkness, you may also seek out partners who embody Lilith for you. Refusing to gaze into this side of your own nature, you may project it onto others, claiming victimhood while overlooking your role in toxic dynamics, demanding loyalty from others you won’t give in return, or calling out others out on hypocritical grounds.

To fully realize this placement, you must learn to embody Lilith for yourself. Learn to walk the middle ground between selfishness and self-sacrifice. You are your own other half.

Black Moon Lilith represents a dark embodiment of divine feminine power. Fierce, raw, and primal, it’s the side of ourselves that refuses to be tamed, fights for its rights, and owns its desires.

Some may deny or repress these urges, associating them with shame, stigma, and disgrace. Others may overindulge or misuse these appetites through selfishness, destructiveness, or abuse. Meanwhile, others still may veer between these extremes, bottling up and exploding in a cycle of violence and guilt. As with all shadow selves, we must integrate the energies of Black Moon Lilith, and learn to express these parts of our personalities freely, mindfully, and purposefully.

Useful Lilith in 7th House Crystals