Venus inconjunct Mercury love Synastry ~ Different Attitudes
Venus shows what a man is attracted to in a woman. Being with a woman who is strong in his Venus element, or who makes close sextiles to his Venus makes the relationship much easier, and increases sexual desire and compatibility. For a woman, her Venus is part of her feminine nature, so it is definitely best when her partner also relates well with this element. When people have positive Venus synastry, they naturally like and love each other. That, of course, is what makes positive Venus synastry so great.
Venus Inconjunct Mercury
You do not share your romantic partners ideas about love, beauty, romance, and domestic matters because you are looking at relationships with two very different sets of concepts. When the Venus person is inconjunct to the Mercury person, they has difficulty understanding your sense of style, elegance, and aesthetics, and will need to adjust to your thinking and taste.