• Learning Real Values

Venus Inconjunct Ascendant

Venus Aspects

Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure

Venus Inconjunct Ascendant


With Venus Inconjunct your Ascendant, you tend to try too hard to please. While many see the good intentions behind such behavior and appreciate it, others can take advantage of it, and it makes still others feel uncomfortable and can alienate them from you.
You need to learn to feel worthy regardless of what you do for those around you. Gaining a sense of positive self-esteem is not always easy, but it does have an easy beginning. Think of what you value in other people, and then remember that to them you are another person, and they probably value similar things. You would never expect someone to give to you constantly in order to be valued, so why do you?
Your real value lies not in what others think of you, but in how you feel about yourself. The adjustments you need to make may be just as simple as determining what you need and want from your life. But when you start to think about it, you realize that this is not as easy as it sounds - after all, if you did exactly what you want to do, what would others think? And so you get caught in that trap all over again.
You can get out of it by focusing on your real values. If you were tied to no social norms whatsoever, what would you see as the proper ways to live your life?
Herein you will find your true values, and then you can start living your life accordingly, and without the anxiety of worrying about social acceptance.