• Learning to Not Be Taken Advantage of

Venus Inconjunct Mars

Venus Aspects

Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure

Venus Inconjunct Mars


With Venus Inconjunct you Mars, you are easily led into doing other people's jobs for them. You want others to think well of you and therefore let your real responsibilities go and prioritize solving other people’s problems.
But you are the only one who can do what it takes to solve your problems, so make sure they get the attention they deserve. And when helping others, make sure there is some kind of mutuality involved. If you scratch their back, what happens when yours is itchy?
By learning to be more assertive in relationships you will feel more like yourself. You may be afraid of being demanding, but if you don’t communicate to your lover what your needs are, you will never be able to find contentment with them.
You often chase ideals and don’t take into account the realities of the world and human nature. This leaves you frustrated and without any real opportunity to get satisfaction. Continuing down this path will lead you to resentment, a place where you no longer even have your ideals.
So avoid this fate by trying to be as realist as possible when dealing with people and the world. Then your idealism can survive, and your view of world will mature and complexify.
Clarity in your interactions and correct evaluation of the people around you will help you thrive long into the future, and knowing what you really want will help to bring more joy into your life and gives you better use of your energy.