Venus Aspects

Venus represents our feminine or sensual nature. It rules over two areas of life : love and money. Venus rules our sentiments, what we value and pleasure including grace and charm. Venus rules the arts, love and romance, beauty entertainment and comfort. We look to venus in your chart to identify how we approach our relationships whether through security, conquest or adventure and what things in life bring you most pleasure

Venus Sesquiquadrate Ascendant

You are a person of refined artistic and cultural tastes. It is not enough that something is beautiful, it must also have a uniqueness about it in order to draw your interest. You long for the pleasure of taking in pure aesthetic beauty, untainted by self-consciousness. It may be true that a little tolerance in matters of taste would make your personal life much easier and more fun. Simple enjoyment of the impure and the tainted could help loosen up both your mind and body. Art and beauty can remain important, but they should not replace living in the moment. This focus gives your personality much of its special color, and it is also responsible for many of your difficulties. Like, for example, the difficulty you find in achieving stability in relationships while remaining honest in your self-expression. You tend to feel relationships as being stifling of your individuality, and the longer they go on for the more they are felt to stifle. You attract and grow by association with people who have vastly different styles and judgements than your own. Many lessons in life are learned from these people as long as you remain open-minded enough to see the world through their eyes, if only for a short while. Opportunities to grow are always present, as you have a knack for seeing a higher synthesis any time a disagreement emerges. It is a great quality, one grounded in your appreciation of aesthetic beauty, and also one which could be the answer to your longing to solve your relationship problems. Seek the higher synthesis with your partner, love is not a zero-sum game, but rather one from which all involved gain.