Moon inconjunct Neptune love Synastry ~ Unclear Motives
The Moon is the most important 'planet' in relationships. The Moon represents deep security needs, and it is difficult to be with with someone who does not offer us what our Moon needs. Positive Moon compatibility will show two people who feel "at home" with one another, and instinctively care for one another. It's like being family. That's why it's the most important planet in synastry. If you want to spend the rest of your life sleeping in the same bed as someone else, you obviously need to feel like family to one another.
Moon Inconjunct Neptune
You are likely to see and respond to the partner you imagine that you have rather than the actual romantic partner that you do have. When the Moon person is inconjunct the Neptune person, they feels confused about your relationship and where you stand. You will have to make adjustments in order to give a clearer picture.