Mercury inconjunct Venus love Synastry ~ Difficulty Understanding
Mercury represents our communication style and intellectual processes. Strong aspects between your Mercury and your partner's planets and/or points favor communication and sharing ideas.
Mercury Inconjunct Venus
You do not share your romantic partners ideas about love, beauty, romance, and domestic matters because you are looking at relationships with two very different sets of concepts. When the Mercury person is inconjunct to the Venus person, they has difficulty understanding your sense of style, elegance, and aesthetics, and will need to adjust to your thinking and taste.