Moon inconjunct Pluto love Synastry ~ Unresolved Burdens
The Moon is the most important 'planet' in relationships. The Moon represents deep security needs, and it is difficult to be with with someone who does not offer us what our Moon needs. Positive Moon compatibility will show two people who feel "at home" with one another, and instinctively care for one another. It's like being family. That's why it's the most important planet in synastry. If you want to spend the rest of your life sleeping in the same bed as someone else, you obviously need to feel like family to one another.
Moon Inconjunct Pluto
You are aware of feelings in your partner which you attribute to what is going on between you but which are really highly charges emotional experiences they has left unresolved from previous romantic relationships. When the Moon person is inconjunct the Pluto person, they keeps asking you what's wrong. When you say 'nothing,' they aren't satisfied with your answer. What your partner feels as upsets between you are really unresolved emotional burdens from your past which you feel but may no longer be aware of as interfering with your present romantic relationship.